It has dawned on me that I may be an over-achieving mom – over-parenting mom – or some such thing. Whatever you would call a person who finds a flaw and tries to fix it, only to be faced with the reality later that perhaps the flaw isn’t so bad at all and maybe the person is just a freak instead. Hi, that’s me. Case in point: the Summer Math Tutor. I made the kids go to the math tutor twice a week throughout the summer.